YOU WERE NEVER MEANT
TO NAVIGATE CHANGE ALONE
Backed by neuroscience,
anchored in ancient wisdom
For 200,000 years, humans have marked major life transitions through witnessed ceremony. Anthropologists call this "collective meaning-making" - the neurological process where your brain integrates identity shifts through community acknowledgment.
Modern life expects you to process change privately.
Ancient wisdom knows you need to be seen through it.
A personalized ceremony designed specifically for the transition you're living.
A POWERFUL WAY TO PARTICIPATE IN YOUR OWN BECOMING
Whether you're stepping into a new decade, embracing physical changes, or crossing meaningful thresholds, your journey deserves its own ceremony.
Not quite ready? Book a Clarity Call.
YOUR BRAIN RECOGNIZES THESE MOMENTS AS NEUROLOGICALLY SIGNIFICANT:
✺ The identity shift when you become someone's caregiver - and suddenly see your parent as vulnerable, requiring your brain to rewire decades of relationship patterns.
✺ The biological transition into menopause - when your body's changes signal a fundamental identity evolution that deserves witnessing, not just medical management.
✺ The career completion after decades of contribution - whether by choice or circumstance, requiring your brain to process the loss of professional identity while embracing what's next.
✺ The empty nest recalibration - when your primary role shifts, leaving your brain to integrate who you are beyond motherhood.
✺ The relationship evolution - whether deepening, ending, or transforming, these changes require neurological processing to move forward cleanly.
✺ The geographic reset - when location change represents internal transformation, requiring ceremony to mark the significance beyond logistics.
✺ ✺ ✺
These transitions create what psychologists call "identity disruption." Without conscious acknowledgment, your brain can remain stuck processing the change indefinitely.
If you recognize yourself in any of these transitions, your brain is signaling that it needs witnessed support to move forward.
Schedule a clarity call to explore whether ceremony could create the completion you're seeking.
Types of CEREMONIES OFFERED
-
Milestone Moments
Entering a new decade
Empty nest transitions
Career evolutions
Retirement transformations
-
Personal Transformations
Reclaiming identity
Shifting priorities
Embracing authenticity
Stepping into leadership
-
Physical Changes
Embracing bodily wisdom
Honoring menopause
Marking health journeys
Celebrating strength
-
How women feel before their ceremony:
✺ Uncertain about how to honor their transition
✺ Unsure of how to integrate their changing identity
✺ Disconnected from the significance of their journey
-
How women feel after their ceremony:
✺ Deeply witnessed in their transformation
✺ Clear about the meaning of their transition
✺ Equipped to move forward with intention and purpose
CLIENT EXPERIENCE - AMY'S CEREMONY
"From the moment I saw Skylar's Instagram reel offering Customized Ceremonies to commemorate women's nontraditional threshold moments, I knew I wanted one. While I had celebrated weddings, anniversaries, birthdays and school graduations (mine and others') for years, I hadn't acknowledged a deeply personal recent accomplishment–becoming a writer.
When my husband died almost four years ago, my whole life changed. I'd cycled through several (re)incarnations of myself before deciding to write a memoir about my life in early widowhood. While I felt like a "real writer" when I learned my manuscript would be published in May 2026, I worried a Customized Ceremony might be too self-indulgent. I decided to move forward anyway, and I am so grateful I did!
I've loved Skylar's offerings on Insight Timer for years, and was thrilled with my customized ceremony and personalized guided meditation. She asked just the right questions, gathering specific information about not only my life, but my needs and desires, to curate an intimate experience just for me.
Working with Skylar was wonderful from start to finish. She is empathic and intuitive in ritual/ceremony creation and cares deeply about commemorating every midlife woman's unique transitions and thresholds. This was a priceless investment in myself and I am grateful to Skylar for creating an unforgettable experience that I will treasure forever."
—Amy
THE CEREMONY PROCESS
-
Discovery
▽
A conversation about your journey and the transition you wish to honor. Together, we explore the elements that will make your ceremony meaningful.
-
CREATION
▽
Your ceremony is thoughtfully designed with personal touches, meaningful rituals, and transformative elements that reflect your unique story.
-
CEREMONY
▽
In our private virtual space, your ceremony unfolds with intention and presence. Each moment is held with care and recorded for you to revisit.
-
INTEGRATION
▽
Space to ground your experience, reflect on your ceremony's meaning, and vision your path forward with renewed clarity.
CEREMONY HELPS YOUR BRAIN MOVE FORWARD
ThIS IS WHY YOU MIGHT FEEL:
✺ Stuck between identities, unable to fully step into who you're becoming
✺ Like something significant happened but nobody really saw it
✺ Disconnected from the magnitude of what you've lived through
✺ Value presence and meaning over superficial celebration
✺ Uncertain whether this change "counts" as important
Personalized ceremony creates the neurological completion your brain requires. When your transition is witnessed with intention and designed around your specific story, your mind can release the processing load and move forward with clarity.
You don't need to figure this out alone. You need someone who understands the neuroscience of change to create the witnessing experience your brain craves.
Your ceremony includes:
✺ 45-minute Discovery Session: Together, we’ll explore the significance of your moment and your intention behind it. It’s a space for clarity and meaningful conversation.
✺ 60-minute Custom Ceremony: I’ll guide you through a ceremony designed specifically for you, one that incorporates rituals, reflection, and intention-setting—creating space for your journey.
✺ 30-minute Integration Session: This follow-up is a chance to reflect on the experience and ensure it supports your next steps with lasting impact.
✺ HD Video Recording and Personal Audio Reflection: You’ll receive a beautiful video recording of your ceremony and an audio meditation to revisit and continue your personal process.
Investment: One payment of $497 or two payments of $265.
Not quite sure if a ceremony is right for you?
Schedule a complimentary 15-minute Clarity Call to explore whether a ceremony would serve your intention.
A CEREMONY OF BECOMING:
JENNIFER'S STORY
For months, Jennifer had been preparing for the moment her youngest child would leave for university and her home would become quiet in a way it hadn't been for over two decades.
"I didn't want a party celebrating my so-called freedom," she explained. "I wanted something that acknowledged both the closing of a chapter and the opening of another. Something that helped me recognize what I was carrying forward."
Together, we crafted a ceremony that honored three aspects of Jennifer's transition: the wisdom she had gathered through motherhood, the parts of herself that had been waiting for attention, and the threshold between her known past and her unwritten future.
"What surprised me was how Skylar created a structure that felt both carefully designed and completely personal. The ceremony wasn't about following someone else's ritual. It was about holding space for my own meaning-making."
Long-term Impact: Months later, Jennifer reports: "When I feel uncertain about this new phase, I return to the words I spoke during the ceremony. They remind me that I've thoughtfully crossed a threshold, not just had something happen to me. That difference matters more than I can explain."
WHAT PERSONALIZED CEREMONY CREATES THAT GENERIC RITUALS CAN'T
Most ceremony experiences follow someone else's template. You adapt to their structure, their words, their vision of what your moment should mean.
I create ceremonies that adapt to you. Your story becomes the foundation. Your values shape the rituals. Your vision of who you're becoming guides every element.
While honoring the wisdom that ceremony has held for centuries, we create something entirely yours. While my own background weaves together English and Irish traditions, I create secular ceremonies that respect cultural boundaries and celebrate your individual story.
This becomes a witnessing experience so aligned with your truth that your nervous system can finally release the transition and move forward with clarity.
When ceremony honors your individual story - your specific challenges, your unique strengths, your personal definition of what this change means - it becomes a bridge between who you've been and who you're becoming.
110,000+ PEOPLE HAVE TRUSTED ME TO GUIDE THEIR TRANSFORMATIONS
Over the past decade, I've held space for thousands of transformation experiences. What began as curating immersive yoga experiences evolved into something deeper - the recognition that people needed witnessing for the threshold moments that practice alone couldn't address.
My meditation guidance has been experienced by over 110,000 people worldwide. Each person who chooses to be vulnerable in that space teaches me something about what it means to truly witness another human being's evolution.
My meditation work creates the foundation - building trust, presence, and inner wisdom. When you're facing your biggest life transitions, ceremony takes that foundation deeper, meeting you at the threshold - in those moments when you're crossing from one identity to another, when you need someone who understands the weight of what you're carrying and the courage it takes to set it down.
Every ceremony I create draws from this deep well of experience in holding space for transformation. I understand how to create safety for vulnerability, how to honor what's ending while celebrating what's beginning, and how to craft experiences that feel both deeply personal and universally meaningful.
WHAT CEREMONY OFFERS THAT ENDLESS REFLECTION CAN'T
Many people find themselves endlessly thinking about their transition - analyzing it, discussing it, trying to figure it out. While reflection is valuable, ceremony offers something different: a way to honor your transition through intentional action and witnessed declaration.
When ceremony is designed specifically for you:
✺ Your nervous system receives clear signals about what's ending and what's beginning - instead of staying stuck in the ambiguous middle ground of "something is changing but I don't know what"
✺ You speak your truth in a witnessed space - transforming internal dialogue into declared intention
✺ Your transition becomes a conscious choice rather than something happening to you - shifting from victim of circumstance to author of your own becoming
✺ The experience becomes a resource you can return to - through HD recording and personal reflection, you create a touchstone for moments when you need to remember who you chose to become
This is why ceremony feels different from therapy or coaching. It's not about analyzing your transition - it's about claiming it as yours and moving forward with intention.
FAQs
-
Your ceremony takes place in a private online space where we connect via video. The intimate setting allows for meaningful connection while offering the comfort of your chosen environment. Each element is thoughtfully designed to create presence and intention, translating the ceremonial experience beautifully to the virtual format.
-
These ceremonies are carefully crafted experiences, not casual conversations. Each element—from the pre-ceremony preparation to the integration session—is designed to create a container of intention and meaning for your transition. The deliberate attention to detail and personalized approach honors your unique journey.
-
Each ceremony is designed to match the energy and intention that feels right for your transition. Some ceremonies call for joyful celebration, while others benefit from quiet reflection—most include elements of both. During our Discovery Session, we'll explore the tone that resonates most with your experience, ensuring your ceremony honors your transition in a way that feels authentic to you.
-
Absolutely. Your ceremony is completely private, and while it is recorded for your future reflection, the recording is solely for your personal use.
HAVE QUESTIONS ABOUT THE CEREMONY EXPERIENCE?
A 15-minute Clarity Call gives you space to explore whether a ceremony would be meaningful for your specific transition.
Begin Your Intentional Ceremony
Your significant moments deserve more than acknowledgment. They deserve to be witnessed with intention.
Each ceremony experience includes:
✺ 45-minute Discovery Session
✺ 60-minute Custom Ceremony
✺ 30-minute Integration Session
✺ HD Video Recording & Personal Audio Reflection
Limited spots available for Summer ceremonies
AFTER YOU BOOK
-
DISCOVERY SESSION
☆
We'll schedule your 45-minute Discovery Session at a time that works for you, creating space for a thoughtful conversation about the significant moment you wish to honor with intention.
-
CEREMONY CREATION
☆
Your custom ceremony will take place 1-4 weeks after your Discovery Session, allowing time for me to craft each element with care and attention to what matters most to you.
-
INTEGRATION SESSION
☆
We'll complete with a 30-minute Integration Session to help embody the experience, reflecting on insights that emerged and exploring how to carry this wisdom forward.
Not quite ready to book, but feeling drawn to the idea?
Many women sense that a meaningful moment in their lives deserves acknowledgment, yet may wonder if ceremony is right for them. If you're curious about how to recognize when a moment is asking for more intentional witnessing, I've created a thoughtful guide.
This resource explores the physical and emotional signals that indicate a need for ceremony, the difference between processing and witnessing life changes, and simple ways to begin honoring your significant moments with intention.
WHEN YOU’RE READY
I’m READY TO BEGIN
A clear yes in your heart?
I’m CURIOUS - LET’s CHAT
Not quite sure, but something’s stirring?